Sunday, August 18, 2013

"I am fed up of my life"

"I don't want to live"

"This always happens with me"

"Oh!I am not that lucky"

I never wanted to start my first post on this blog with such statements, but these are certain words I keep hearing again and again. These are the few statements that mark the "WHY ME" aspect of the human nature. We all must have experienced these emotional swings at one point of time or the other. These statements blends well with our pensive mood. We all know it very well that this attitude is seriously very injurious to our positive thoughts, yet we can't help "Being Human". However, we can always manage and reduce it. We all are born with a purpose and hence organizing your life and living it meaningfully is very important. Let us look into some situations which lays the foundation stone for such a behavior.

Organizing your life and living it better

WHEN "WHY ME" Attitude?

This behavior is completely situational. Let's consider some of them:

  • When you have really bad School results Oh God! I want to kill myself. That's the inner voice that many of us experience and the saddest part is some of us actually implement it.
  • When you are unable to get admission in a college of your dreams - Many of us feel that this is the end of the world and as a result the nation loses many creative minds each year.
  • When you are not getting expected increments or promotions and that your performance is not appreciated - In such a situation you lose faith in your capacity and ability and end up with many types of complexes.

There are many more situations and the ones mentioned above were just like touching the tip of the iceberg. These situations can lead to drastic changes in us, which not channeled appropriately, can be beneficial or bad for the society or the individual.

WHY"WHY ME" Attitude?

What causes this attitude to make a place and grow in our mind?

Let's find out:

  • Firstly our pensive and passive mood is the biggest reason for this attitude.
  • Secondly major reason for such a behavior is when we lose control over our emotions.
  • Last but not the least is when we start comparing our life with the lives of others.

HOW to Manage and Minimize the "WHY ME" attitude?

organizing your life

In a nutshell let's see what we can do to make ourselves feel better:-

  • First of all you must understand that this LIFE is a gift of God. You should respect it and you have no right to abuse it.
  • STOP comparing and START living your life. You are no less than anybody. You are equally precious to your loved ones as anybody.
  • Try and balance your emotions. Your emotions are quite private so DON'T publicize them.
  • Manage yourself in such a way that you RULE your Brain and Heart. Don't let them RULE you.
  • Try to find out your weaknesses and accept them positively. Respect your critic's opinion. YOU will definitely grow.
  • Try organizing your life in such a way so that you have a balance in both personal as well your professional life.
  • When in pensive mood, DON'T separate yourself from everyone. I am sure there is at least one person in your life who loves you in spite of any situation you are in. In short just be close with those who love you unconditionally.

I hope my first post on this site will help you to know yourself better. After all, Life is beautiful. Do let me in case you have more options on organizing our life and living it better. Please share your views in the comments box below.


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Wednesday, March 24, 2010

By Jai Dahalli

The secret of success in todays times is to reinvent yourself constantly keeping in mind that you do not lose heart and keep on motivating yourself and keep moving towards giving your 100%.

Along with physical ability and strength your mental and spiritual stability is also very important for your constant growth. The chakras within you play an important role as these points of spiritual energy offer a great deal to your character and wisdom; they act as the intermediaries between the soul and the physical body.

In order to reach your goals it is important that the strength and energy lying within you are transformed into performance and here is where the chakras play a defining role. The only thing that you need to be careful about is that these chakras require being refreshed periodically or else their efficiency might reduce.

Since each chakra in our body has relevance with various aspects we need to understand and ensure that all of them are paid adequate attention, the seven chakras in your body lie between the bottom of your spine and the head.

While you are clearing the chakras you get away the negativity from the body and bring in positive energy, stabilizing it in the body.

The various moves made by your body have different effects in the flow of energy, while positive energies come in on the occurrence of clockwise movements while anti-clockwise movements are required to eliminate the negativity.

Also in the process of clearing chakras you might experience a little pain in body parts but that is just an indication of the occurrence of the process of energy exchange.

The energy obtained by means of exchange in the process of chakra clearing is said to come from the planets and are used by man to channelize his efforts optimally.

Clearing chakras leads to complete reinvention of your personality and you feel as if the world around you has become very pleasant. Individuals like to perform this act on a regular basis but the regularity differs from individual to individual.

You would see that after clearing chakras you would be able to develop a better ability to respond to various situations, also you would find yourself discovering newer thoughts and ideas, in fact people are able to see a newer side of their personality often after they have cleared and balanced their chakras.

You can start working out initially with a single or a couple of chakras and gradually ensure that you are able to clear all your chakras to get the maximum benefits of your inner skills and energies. You will feel at peace and also you would be comfortable in the position you are.

In order to understand which chakra you need to clear you will not need to know rocket science but just feel the reactions of your body parts and then work on the chakra it relates to.

Todays competitive world demands a lot of agility and awareness and without the right approach and the correct balance of all your energies making your abilities count as performance would be quite difficult.

The spiritual energy has a potential role to play in the success of an individual in all fields and that has been realised by people practising this art. Also efforts are being made to understand the science of chakras in a better way.

The amount of satisfaction and accomplishments that the functioning chakras bring into your life is enormous, it is just the question of how effectively you practise it to achieve a refreshed source of energy.

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