Meaning of Good Life

Questions are the most amazingly simple things that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.

Dale Carnegie in his best-selling book, "How to win friends and influence people" shares about the benefit of asking good questions to show that we are interested in someone else.

Have you ever been to a party and you've been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that but you got 100% of the credit!

If you're a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leaping to final base, saving a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.

If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!

Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.

Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started

1. If you're a waiter and a customer was super rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or think about doing this?

2. What is you all time favourite book and why?

3. If you could choose to have dinner with five people - real of fictional - who would you invite and why?

4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?

5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?

6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?

7. What do you regret the most in your life?

8. What's the funniest experience in your whole entire life?

9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?

10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?

11. What's the most horrible lie you have ever told someone in your life? Where you caught out and who was it that you told it to?

12. If you instantly turned into a woman just for a day, what would you do with your day and why?

13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?

14. What's the highest priority for you when considering a partner - good looks, intelligence, sense of humor, or something else?

Time to get a little more personal!

15. Have you ever been caught with no clothes on in a public place - if so what were you doing?

16. What's the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?

17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What's your biggest sexual 'turn-ons' and 'turn-offs'?

19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?

20. Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself? If they did what did you do and who was it?

21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?