Sunday, January 17, 2010

By Kim Sanchez

After having a bad break up with her ex boyfriend, my friend tried calling her ex boyfriend to patch things up. However, her ex boyfriend does not answer her calls. She has been calling him several times even leaving a message to call her back so that the two of them could talk but to no avail. So my friend asked for my advice on how her boyfriend would respond to her calls so that the two of them could talk properly and make up.

Sometimes, it is really hard to make someone talk to you or answer your calls if you are at fault or when something goes wrong in the relationship. Your boyfriend might be hurting too much to make any move. But this is not a hopeless case. There are things that you could do to make him speak to you.

First, do not make to many calls in a day. Make a single call in a day and just simple leave a message that you want to talk. Do not leave too many messages or make too many calls because he might think that you are too desperate to get him back, and since it is your fault, he might prolong your agony by not answering your calls or returning it.

The second thing that you need to do is to leave curiosity driven messages on his voice mail or mobile phone. Do not go in circles with your message. Get to the point and rehearse your voice mail as much as you can. Do not just act on emotions or whims. You have to appeal to his logical side rather than appealing to his emotions. If he does not respond just give him time to think for himself then.

If he still does not call you after a week or so then you have to move slowly and deliberately. You can ask a close friend or a common friend to serve as a bridge of communication between you two. You can sue your friend's phone to call up your boyfriend. He will definitely answer it. This is where your rehearsal will come into play. Go direct to the point and be honest but calm when talking to him.

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2 Comments:

  1. Beckey said...
    Great tips on how to get your ex boyfriend back. This is exactly the way we should play when ex boyfriend dumps. Honesty always works.
    hannah said...
    Thanks a lot for your advice guys, it helped me a lot, I went to www.saveabreakup.com and followed their step by step instructions and it worked perfectly, now me and my girlfriend are back together.

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