Sunday, November 22, 2009

How To Seduce A Guy In 5 Simple Steps

By Sarah Nichols

Men today like women with intelligence. A woman with intelligence is important to a man, but he also wants them sweet and sexy! So, do you want to know how to seduce a guy to make him fall in you? Well, seduction is one of the art of making a guy fall in love with you against his will. The excitement of seduction lies in the chase rather than the conquest.

This article will help you not only to find the "hidden switch" that turns the guys on, but will also give you some ideas how you can win the man you want. So read on, here are the 5 steps how to seduce a guy.

1. Get your confidence up.

This can mean doing things such as getting a new haircut, new clothes, losing weight, or just reminding yourself of your great qualities. Also watch your posture like keeping a straight back and your shoulders backwards, expose your chest. Do everything that makes your confidence boost. You need to make the man like you before you can make a move. Nothing is more attractive to a man than a woman who is confident, comfortable and happy.

2. Do Flirting Without Talking

Start with almost accidentally sidelong glances. You can follow up with a direct look. The moment he looks back, then you instantly lower your eyes and put on an embarrassed smile. You can even emphasize that some moments later by looking again, this time longer and then again lower your eyes.

3. Send him little signs

Now it's time to spread a little hope that the man has actually a chance on you. Send him little signs of interest from time to time that make him come forward. For examples:
* Show unclenched hands
* Play with your hair or caress other objects. Push your fingers through your hair
* Pick some fluff of his jacket (even if there is none!)
* Face him directly and slightly lean forward every now and then
* Wet and bite your lips from time to time

4. Get in close.

Talk to him, and let him know you like him. Guys like to hear that they are wanted just as much as girls do. If he has a slim or medium build, say how strong he is. If he is not so smart, tell him how smart he is (at the right time). Say that it feels good when he holds you. Also, just listen to him.

5. Touch his hand accidentally

When you reach for something, try to accidentally touch his hand. Don't make it too obvious. Also touch him briefly during the conversation to make a point or when he just made an interesting remark about something. The secret is being playful with casually touches now and then. This creates tension and also a physical connection. And more importantly, it subconsciously communicates that you're not interested in "only being friends".

Now, there is a final ingredient to a successful seduction of a man. He must not feel seduced. He must think that he seduced you, not the other way around. Give him his victory, let him be the hero. Men like that. It gives them a feeling of security. So, why not taking advantage of that, if you can get what you want!

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1 Comment:

  1. Nickolei said...
    This must be an interesting one, and I agree with you there, "Men today like women with intelligence."nicely said. Thanks for sharing.


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